Thoughts on Life
By Jim Stavis
To quote the famous Yogi Berra,
“If the world were perfect, it
wouldn’t be.” If everyone and every
company were perfect, the world
would be a pretty boring place in
which to live. There certainly
would not be much to report or
comment on. But as Yogi also said,
“You can observe a lot just by
watching.” And there is a great deal
to watch and observe both in
business and in life.
Last month I had a good friend
who suddenly and inexplicably died
of pancreatic cancer. He was only
51 years old with a loving wife and
two beautiful daughters. Their lives
will never be the same. I know
everyone has a friend, a parent, an
uncle or someone they know who
has died. It is a very sobering reality,one that forces us to look at our
own mortality. Death is such a
tough reality in our culture,
something that to me, seems we are
so ill-equipped to deal with. We
value our youth, our health and
tend to close our eyes to the certainty,
the eventuality that we will all die
one day. But we prefer not to
think about it, so much so that we
delay taking care of the
preparations that must be made
when that day arrives.
So at this point, you are
wondering how this all relates to
steel, as a steel newsletter should.
The answer is, it doesn’t and this
month it will not. We are
dedicating this newsletter to my
friend, Ira Reisman, who taught
me that there is more in life than
what we do for a living, what we
peddle each day. What is
important is how we conduct
ourselves with our families, our
employees, with our customers,
vendors and everyone that we
come in contact with. What matters is not how big our bank
accounts are, or the type of car we
drive, but how we may be
remembered when we are no
longer here. The impact that we
have on others is the true gift of
life itself.
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Within the next few months, I
will be undergoing a mega-surgery
to hopefully correct a serious
illness (juvenile diabetes) that I’ve
had since I was a teenager. I will
be receiving a transplant for a
heart, kidney and pancreas to
replace the failing organs in my
body. I’ve deemed it the “organ
trifecta.” Fortunately for me, the
technology exists today that
even makes this dream possible.
I feel lucky, unlike my friend
Ira, who never had this chance
for survival. So for all the
people who are feeling sorry for
me, at least I have hope, one of
life’s genuine miracles.
Life can be so fleeting. Just
when we think we have things
going the way we want, we are
thrown a curve, another twist in
the road. And what I have cometo learn is that the only thing
we can rely upon is that change
is inevitable and we had better
learn how to deal with it. Life
as we know it is filled with
uncertainty and generally
speaking this uncertainty
makes us feel quite
uncomfortable. And yet, it
truly is this quest to deal with
the unknown that makes life so
interesting and worth living.
Which brings us back to Yogi’s
quote, “If the world were
perfect, it wouldn’t be.” Amen.
If you wish to respond, I can be
reached at
jstavis@paragonsteel.com |